Let me take a breather here and tell you that although online banking is the best thing since sliced bread, it's still important to keep your receipts until they clear on your statements. Mr. Smith is still getting use to my constant inquiries of... "Hey! Where's your receipt for this?" and his subsequent eyerolls.
Which leads us back to that Friday night. Having both receipts from Friday and Saturday nights, I reviewed our online credit card statements on Tuesday morning (because nothing ever clears until Tuesday). Interesting enough, there were two charges for our Friday night at Humphrey's, not just our $16.39 one, but another one for about $50. (The Saturday night one under my maiden name cleared perfectly fine...) Stumped, I quizzed Mr. Smith. "Did you have another tab open that I didn't know about?" He professed his innocence and told me to ahem, calm down and wait a few days before sounding the alarm. Which I did, I swear.
A week went by, so this past Monday I got up the courage to call Humphrey's
The moral of this fun little story is to keep your receipts and watch out for yourself! Even if your name is not "Smith" there still could be someone looking for their own free night o' fun at your expense. And if your spouse rolls their eyes at you for doing this, hopefully you can have your own little victory day too!